Wednesday, July 27, 2011

Fighting this paranoia

Dreams are your subconscious mind trying to tell you something. But what if it's too paranoid? Then you know that you now have to use your brain and intuition to fight that paranoia. Whatever happens in the past doesn't predict the future. You can still fight it today. If your life's not about fighting your own demons, then it's a life not worth living.

I woke up today with this weird dream that taps into the core of paranoia. I woke up today with the feeling of being afraid to start off a new relationship or friendship because of the bad experiences I had. I did not want to let the past cause so much of an impact on my life, but when it tackles my subconscious, now that's damn serious and I need to discuss this with myself to take down this paranoia demon.

So what I did was I told myself that I should not give in to this feeling. There are others who actually do appreciate who I am. I cannot control others who are not happy with the choices I make, but I can very well appreciate those who are happy for who I am.

Despite the cold exterior I portrayed in class, when I speak up in class it shows that I do know what I'm talking about. More often than not, I actually did corrections for the lecturer and made eye contact to further strengthen my conviction. And even when I didn't make any new friends in class yet, some of them do come up to me to ask about assignments - but only to have me walk away

Ok well I know I should not have done that but I was so lazy to make contacts in class! Maybe subconsciously, that was the start of the paranoia.

So alright. Next time in class (which is actually a week from now), I should talk more with classmates. Who knows I might find someone I actually like. And being the youngest in class is a bonus for me. I can act all dumb and innocent, with that wide-eyed enthusiasm bursting through my eyes. Haha.

Truth is, you can never know what the other person is going through. Maybe a smile and a 'hi' can brighten up his/her day. :) Be nice people. I should do the same too. :)

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